Does this make me racist?

we were having a conversation in cl about the mixing of the races, and while I think its cool and in fact am very appreciative of it since I wouldn't be here were it not for mixed couples, I also said I UNDERSTAND, why so many black females get upset when they see black men with white women. I didn't say I agree with it, just that I understand why they feel like they do. Number 1, there are very few decent acting men in general, number 2 there are even fewer decent acting black men in the US do to shear population size, number 3 if most of the black men in a black woman's neighborhood are with a woman of another race and the fact of the matter is that the extreme majority of white men, latinos, chinese etc are not attracted to black women that makes the black woman's dating pool extreeeemely shallow, so I can see why she is upset. It doesn't give her the right to give them the evil eye, but I can see where she is coming from. But dis dude went off saying I am racist and ignorant just because I can see their point of view. what do you think?